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Thursday, June 30, 2022

Old Marriage Proverbs

       Many are the proverbs connecting themselves with marriages; below are just a few old ones...

"Woman has made man wise — and wary"
"A blind man's wife needs no painting"
 
"Who has a fair wife needs more than two eyes. "

"A fair woman and a torn gown will always find some nail in the way."

"The more women look in the glass, the less they look to their houses. "

 " The lazy wife has broken her elbow at the church door..."
 
"Women and hens through too much gadding are lost."

"The wife that expects to have a good name, is always at home, as if she were lame."

"He that lets his wife go to every feast and his horse drink at every water will have neither a good wife nor a good horse.''

 "He that tells his wife news is but newly married;" for "she conceals what she knows not."
 
"One tongue is enough for a woman."

"There is no mischief in the world done, but a woman is always one."

Indeed, "women and dogs set men by the ears."

 "A woman's mind and winter-wind often change," and yet, "swine, women, and bees cannot be turned. "

 " Women, priests, and poultry never have enough; ''for a ship and a woman are ever repairing."
 
"Husbands are in Heaven whose wives chide not," while "he who marries a widow will often have a dead
man's head thrown into his dish."

"Other people, especially the unmarried, can tell you just how to make domestic life a success..."

"Bachelors, wives' maids, and children are always well taught;" but frequently one of these wiseacres falls in love, ties a knot with his tongue that he can't untie with his teeth, and finds in truth that 'wedlock is a padlock.'"

"In spite, however, of the ancient saying that "honest men marry soon, wise men not at all" and that you
should "commend a wedded life, but keep yourself a bachelor," the world continues to try the trick over and over again. After all, what would we do without wives — especially we married men!"

"Wives must be had, Be they good or bad."

Perhaps it is true that "age and wedlock bring a man to his night-cap;" but the average fellow agrees
with Martin Luther that "He who loves not woman, wine and song, He is a fool his whole life long."

"Marriage has kept the world sane; it brings contentment; it creates order; it inspires personal progress."

"A little' house welt filled,
A little land well tilled,
And a little wife well willed"

"What greater joy than this? For, as Solomon declares, "houses and riches are the inheritance of fathers;
but a prudent wife is from the Lord.''

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

A valiant woman is gentle...

       "The law of kindness is on her tongue." The valiant woman is gentle. She cultivates self-control and good temper. If married people soon forget each other's faces, they are ever cognizant of each other's bad temper. Marriage, like government, is a series of compromises that needs diplomacy or better charity and self-control. A writer goes so far as to say" "Of all qualities 'tis good temper that wears and works best in married life." The poet Burns was evidently of this opinion, endorsed by the millions, that of all things likely to lose an otherwise good woman her social dominion and her husband's esteem and love, the surest is a bed temper. He distributes the qualities desirable in a wife under ten points. Two points he gives to good sense; fortune, family blood, higher education, social connections, etc., he bunches together, saying, "These must be expressed by fractions, as not one of them is entitled to the dignity of an integer." No less then four out of ten points he gives to good temper. Charles Alfred Martin

Monday, October 30, 2017

As to Types . . .

"I have met with women whom I really think would like to be married to a Poem, and to be given away by a Novel." John Keats.

"It is the popular women who make shipwreck of their lives, and the unpopular ones who sail safely into pleasant havens. My experience is that the attractive woman gets the nice little things and the unattractive ones the nice big things in this world." Ellen Thorneycroft Fowler.

"Why should a woman with a comfortable home, a good husband and sweet children permit the demon of unrest to enter her mind and destroy her peace, because she cannot astonish the world with splendid toilets, and entertain her friends in a villa at Newport, or buy a castle in Europe, as some of our multi-millionaires are doing? Ella Wheeler Wilcox.

"It is an uncommon event to meet a woman who, if put into the confessional of conscience, would not own that at some period of her life she had wished she had been born a boy." Marian Harland.

Sunday, May 7, 2017

As to the Sex...

"Woman, they say was only made of man, Methinks 'tis strange they should be so unlike,
It may be all the best was cut away To make the woman, and nought was left behind with him."
Beaumont and Fletcher.
         By the unanimous consent of rhetoricians, there is but one sex: the sex, the fair sex, the unfair sex, the gentle sex, the barbaric sex. We men do not form a sex, we do not even form a sect. We are your mere hangers-on, camp-followers, satellites--your things, your playthings--we are the mere shuttlecocks which you toss hither and thither with your battledores, as the wanton mood impels you. We are born of woman, we are swaddled and nursed by woman, we are governessed by woman, consequently we are beguiled by woman, fooled by woman, led on, put off, tantalized by woman, fretted and bullied by her; finally, last scene of all, we are wrapped in our cerements by woman. Man's life, birth, death turn upon woman as upon a hinge. Henry Harland.

Saturday, May 6, 2017

As to Matrimony...



Some women in marrying demand all and give all: with good men, they are happy; with base men they are the broken-hearted.

Some women demand everything and give little: with weak men, they are tyrants; with strong men, they are the divorced. 

Some women demand little and give all: with congenial souls, they are already in heaven; with uncongenial, they are soon in their graves. 

Some women give little and demand little: they are the heartless, and they bring neither the joy of life nor the peace of death.

James Lane Allen.